Rules for Wearing a Red Dress – Best Color, Shoes, Jewelry + Makeup Tutorial

If you’re thinking about wearing a red dress, I already know something about you. You’re bold, you’re beautiful, and you’re not interested in hiding.

You’ve made a statement just by choosing red-and I love that for you!

Now, you’re wondering how to pull it off like a pro.

You’re in the right place!

I’ve got you covered with expert tips on how to style your makeup, shoes, and accessories so you can rock that red dress with confidence. (And one of them might just surprise you!) Let’s make sure all eyes are on you-for all the right reasons. But first, my red dress story.

The Power of a Red Dress

I wore a red dress to my husband’s Christmas party. In a sea of little black dresses, I stood out.

I wanted to. I wanted him to stand out.

My hardworking husband, the man who makes his company tons of money.

It was intentional-a power move.

In the world of car sales, red ties are the secret weapon on the last day of the month. Power ties. They symbolize wealth, strength, authority, and dominance.

His boss noticed. “Red dress, huh?” he said with a knowing smile.

I smiled back. I knew what he was doing too-with his designer suit, $700 shoes, and red tie.

Red Dress Style Rules + a Red Dress Makeup Tutorial

Ready to wear red and stand out with intention? Here’s how to do it with style and confidence:

#1. Choose the Right Shade

Your perfect red depends on your Color Code.

Warm tones: Burgandy, maroon, or scarlet.

Cool tones: Cherry red or a classic red with blue undertones.

Don’t know your Color Code?

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#2. Match Your Shoes to Your Hair

What are the best color shoes to wear with a red dress? You should match your shoes to your hair. It creates harmony in your overall look and keeps things balanced.

Blonde hair: Cream, Taupe or Gold shoes

Brown hair: Light, Medium or Dark Brown shoes

Red hair: Auburn or Burgandy shoes

Black hair: Black shoes

Gray/Silver: Silver or Gray shoes

Did this one surprise you?

#3. Add Metallic Accents

Gold or silver accessories (according to your Color Code) add a touch of elegance and contrast beautifully with red.

Warm undertone: Gold

Cool undertone: Silver

Bonus: Try a metallic eyeshadow for a trendy, glowing look.

The Perfect Red Dress Makeup Look

Want a simple makeup routine for a perfect look? Keep it simple and stunning with just two products.

Here’s all you need:

Red Lipstick: Apply it to both lips and cheeks for a cohesive look.

Metallic eyeshadow: Use your finger to apply for a quick, shimmering finish.

I know what you’re thinking… can you wear red lipstick with a red dress?

You can definitely wear red lipstick with a red dress!

The most popular lipstick choice for a red dress tends to be the matching red lip. Don’t stress if it’s not the exact shade, just make sure you are in the same range. (I recommend Lipstick Boss Beauty Red Lipsticks by Color Code).

I’ve created a quick video tutorial-watch it on YouTube and see how easy it is to pull off this look!

Ready to Own the Room?

Looking stunning in a red dress is more than just following style rules—it’s about stepping into your power, owning your presence, and showing up with confidence.

But confidence doesn’t happen overnight.

Bold Moves Take Time

Three months before I confidently walked into that Christmas party in my red dress, I wouldn’t have dreamed of it. I felt stuck—invisible, insecure, and anything but bold. I even ran away from home for five days!

It took time, intention, and a journey of rediscovery inspired by the story of Queen Esther.
She didn’t step into her royal purpose overnight, and neither did I.

Now, I help women like you step into your confidence, show up boldly, and experience the health, wealth, and happiness you deserve.

You’ve already made the first bold move by choosing red.
Let’s keep that momentum going!

For more style inspiration and tools to help you show up like the queen you are, check out my book Getting Ready, explore my line of specialty lipsticks, or join my makeover membership for entrepreneurial women.

You’re not called to blend in—you’re called to stand out.
And I’m here to help you every step of the way. 💄👑

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With love + red lipstick,

Nancy (Lipstick Boss)